I live in one of the gayest areas in the world. Let me assure you that while many of the people here are activists, politically engaged, etc., they wear no more pink than anyone else. In fact, I'm sure I wear more pink than the average person on the street, because it is more closely associated with Brooks Brothers and traditional American clothes than with anything else. I hear comments about it all the time, but they are consistently snide remarks from friends who know that I'm not gay. I suppose if you live in an area where there is virulent gay-bashing, and for some reason the association between color and life-style has been made, then I would advise caution, but I can't imagine this is a common issue.